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A friendship born in dance

Nazia and Rolian by IRC
Nazia (front) and Rolian (back) met in Eleonas refugee camp in Greece. They bonded over their love for dance. © IRC/Daphne Tolis

With support from the European Commission, the International Rescue Committee (IRC) is running safe spaces for refugee women and girls in Greece. Nazia and Rolian met some months ago in the Eleonas refugee camp near Athens, where their families are neighbours. The two girls attend the space to socialise, learn and practice their favourite hobby: dancing.

Daphne Tolis

by Daphne Tolis, Communications Officer, Greece, International Rescue Committee

Nazia and Rolian* bonded over their love for dance. The two 16-year-old girls - one from Afghanistan, the other from Syria - practice Zumba moves to videos downloaded on Nazia’s mobile phone. “I want to become a dancer,” says Nazia with a bright smile on her face. “My favourite singer is Justin Bieber. To go to one of his concerts would be my biggest dream come true. But I don’t think it will ever be fulfilled.”

Nazia and Rolian met at Eleonas, a refugee camp outside of Athens. Their friendship developed in the International Rescue Committee’s safe healing and learning space, funded by EU emergency support, which they attend on a daily basis. 

When they first met last March, Nazia and Rolian connected over their passion for learning. “I saw Nazia and her family waiting with their bags in the camp’s reception, and offered her to come to my container (a pre-fabricated housing unit) while their accommodation was being sorted,” recalls Rolian. “She didn’t speak any Arabic and I didn’t speak any Farsi but we somehow managed to communicate. Ever since, Nazia has been teaching me Farsi and I have been teaching her Arabic, and now we understand each other perfectly well.”

Originally from the city of Farah in Afghanistan, Nazia’s family moved to Iran where she was born. Her family’s journey reflects many of the journeys taken by millions of refugees in what is the largest humanitarian crisis since World War II. Only one of Nazia’s brothers remains in Iran; two brothers reached Germany, while Nazia is in Greece with her parents, brother and three sisters. “I remember everything about the journey,” says Nazia. “I remember when we were going through a forest in Turkey and that it was very cold. I also remember the boat journey but I don’t like these memories.” Nazia recounts her story as she walks back from the safe space to her container. She lives close to Rolian, who has her own story to tell.

Rolian by IRC

Rolian shows off some dance moves. © IRC/Daphne Tolis

Rolian was born and raised in Aleppo but her parents decided to flee to Turkey after the city was hit by airstrikes, killing hundreds of civilians, including children. Rolian’s family lived in Turkey for three years. Rather than going to school, she worked in a textile factory from Monday to Friday for two years to contribute $86 a week to the family’s income. In February this year, Rolian’s family crossed the Aegean Sea to Greece, arriving safely on the island of Lesbos.

“Our father decided to leave Turkey for our future,” says Rolian. Despite the relief of reaching Europe alive, Rolian still thinks about what she left behind. “I miss my friends back home and I miss my grandmother whom I haven’t seen in four years…I also miss my home; I remember we left everything inside the house but I don’t know if our house is still there.”

The safe healing and learning space at the camp where they live is a place for the girls to make friends, laugh and play. There they learn Arabic, Farsi, Greek and mathematics. They also attend arts and crafts workshops, and do other activities that help them recover from the trauma of leaving home.

Recently, Rolian’s family received news that they would be relocated to France. “I am happy I am going to France, as French is a language I liked since I was in Turkey,” says Rolian. “Here in the camp I also attend French classes with a teacher from the IRC.” For Nazia and her family, future options are still uncertain: “I don’t know where I will go,” she says, twirling her long hair in her fingers. “My family hopes we will go to Germany or Switzerland. I feel sad Rolian and I will be separated. When she gave me the news, I had tears in my eyes.”

Rolian steps out of her container, some 50 yards away, and heads towards Nazia who is sitting in the makeshift living room at the entrance. “I will miss dancing together,” Nazia says. “Going to the park together and sitting on Rolian’s doorstep and chatting in the evening. We laugh a lot together…when we turn 18 we will meet again.”

* Last names withheld for security reasons.

Last updated
20/07/2017